The Naturis Sancta Vision of Unions and Relationships: A New Path Forward
In today’s world, where individuals are constantly evolving and our connections are increasingly dynamic, it is clear that traditional notions of marriage and lifelong commitments may no longer serve the needs of every individual. At Naturis Sancta, we believe that the way we form and sustain relationships must evolve, just as everything else in life does. As human beings, we are part of nature’s cyclical processes, constantly changing, growing, and adapting. With this in mind, Naturis Sancta offers a new vision for relationships—one that reflects the realities of our time and honours both individual growth and the sacred bonds we form with others.
The Commitment Cycle: A Renewable Path
Rather than viewing marriage or long-term partnerships as a lifelong contract, Naturis Sancta envisions relationships as part of a natural commitment cycle. We propose a model where people enter into a seven-year renewable commitment, with the opportunity to reflect, renew, or peacefully part ways at the end of each cycle. This seven-year cycle mirrors the natural rhythms of life—allowing for growth, adaptation, and conscious reflection along the way.
At the end of each cycle, those in the union are encouraged to take time to evaluate their bond, recognising that relationships, like all things in nature, may change. In the past, when societies were more static and isolated, a lifelong commitment was practical. Today, however, we meet far more people, have greater mobility, and experience life in a constantly shifting landscape. The renewable commitment model allows relationships to thrive naturally while embracing the possibility of change without guilt or fear of failure.
By acknowledging the possibility of change, we honour both the individual’s journey and the sacredness of the bond shared within the union. The seven-year cycle creates space for conscious renewal or respectful separation, depending on where each person is in their life.
Spiritual and Emotional Evolution
Naturis Sancta believes that relationships are not only physical or emotional but also spiritual journeys that provide individuals with an opportunity for growth and connection. In this view, relationships are not bound by outdated expectations but are sacred unions based on respect, mutual support, and the shared experience of life.
The spiritual aspect of a seven-year commitment allows individuals to reflect deeply on their connection, asking whether their paths remain aligned or whether they have grown in different directions. Separation, in this context, is not seen as failure but as part of the natural evolution of the relationship. Everyone in the union is encouraged to express gratitude for the time spent together and to view the end of a cycle as an opportunity for new beginnings. Whether renewing the commitment or parting ways, the focus remains on growth, respect, and harmony.
In this way, Naturis Sancta seeks to redefine what it means to commit, creating a space for individuals to evolve emotionally and spiritually without the pressure of societal expectations.
A Ritual of Reflection and Renewal
In the tradition of Naturis Sancta, each renewal of a commitment—or the conscious end of one—would be marked by a ceremony of reflection and renewal. This ceremony, held in nature, would allow members of the union to renew their vows before the community or to consciously separate with love and mutual respect. The community plays a vital role in supporting individuals during these transitions, recognising that all relationships serve a purpose in our personal growth and our connection to the greater whole.
For those who choose to separate, a ceremony of closure would be held, where the union is thanked for its contributions to the community, and all involved are blessed as they embark on new paths. This approach reframes separation as a natural and healthy conclusion, rather than a sign of failure. In Naturis Sancta, all transitions are honoured, for they reflect the cyclical nature of life.
Practical and Equitable Division
Naturis Sancta is also committed to ensuring that the end of a union is handled with fairness and equity. If the commitment reaches its natural conclusion at the end of the seven-year cycle, all parties involved are encouraged to divide their belongings fairly and equally, ensuring that no one is disadvantaged by the separation. Shared responsibility for children is also paramount in this philosophy. Regardless of the relationship status of the adults, everyone involved remains committed to providing for the well-being and education of any children until they reach adulthood.
This approach ensures that the welfare of the children remains a priority and that all individuals can move forward in life with dignity and respect for each other.
Encouraging Personal and Collective Growth
Naturis Sancta believes that relationships are not just about the connection between individuals—they are also about the connection to the broader community and the natural world. During each seven-year cycle, those in the union are encouraged to participate in community service, to reflect on their contribution to the collective, and to engage in practices that promote both personal and social well-being. By doing so, relationships become a source of growth not only for the individuals involved but also for the wider community.
This model supports Naturis Sancta’s core values of respect, peace, and unity, encouraging those in the union to nurture not only their bond but also their commitment to living in harmony with others and with the Earth.
Flexibility for All Forms of Unions
Naturis Sancta recognises that relationships come in many forms. The seven-year renewable commitment is designed to be flexible and inclusive of all types of unions. Whether a traditional two-person partnership, a polyamorous relationship, or another form of partnership, this model is adaptable to the diverse needs of individuals. The core principles remain the same: mutual respect, personal growth, and conscious reflection.
By allowing individuals to define the structure of their union, Naturis Sancta embraces the diversity of human relationships, recognising that there is no one-size-fits-all model for love and connection.
Renewal Through Nature
Naturis Sancta teaches that connection to nature is essential for personal and collective well-being. During each cycle, unions are encouraged to participate in nature retreats, where they can reconnect with each other and the Earth, reflecting on their journey together. These retreats provide an opportunity to recalibrate the relationship and to renew the bond in the presence of the natural world.
At the end of each seven-year period, those in the union are invited to reflect on whether they are still aligned and to decide whether to renew their commitment or part ways. Either choice is honoured within Naturis Sancta, for it is made with intention and respect.
A New Standard for the Modern World
The seven-year renewable commitment reflects the realities of modern life, where individuals are constantly growing and changing, and where our connections must adapt to these shifts. Naturis Sancta embraces this evolution, offering a new model for relationships that prioritises conscious choice, personal growth, and community support.
In the past, marriage was often seen as a lifelong, unbreakable bond, but in the modern world, where we meet more people, experience more opportunities, and live longer, it is clear that this model no longer fits for many. The renewable commitment allows individuals to grow within their relationships, rather than feeling bound by outdated expectations. It offers a compassionate, respectful, and natural way forward for relationships.
At Naturis Sancta, we believe that by embracing the natural cycles of change in relationships, we foster greater peace, unity, and harmony, not only within ourselves but also in the wider world. By making conscious choices at each stage of our lives, we create stronger, healthier unions that reflect the beauty of the natural world around us.
